5 Places Where An Introvert Can Meet Someone

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Let’s be real, we introverts, don’t really go out that much so that means that our chances of meeting someone are less than for extroverts. Introverts like to stay in their “comfort-zone” and even when we meet someone we like, its hard to be proactive towards that person and let them know we are interested. However, sometimes the places we go can help us find someone that would the right fit for us. A bar? A night club? Not for introverts. I am going to tell you about five possible places we can meet someone:

1. Dating websites – Dating websites are a good place for introverts to meet people for many reasons, we don’t have the person face to face so that would give us more confidence to talk to them, also because dating websites already match us with people, they make it easier for us to look for that special person and then its just matter of sending them a message, which its another advantages for introverts because we have better written skills rather than verbal. One particular dating website I used when I was single was OkCupid and I really liked it, most of the guys I met there were nice and real. However you can never be too careful, there are always catfish outthere.

2. Social media – Social media just like dating websites help us meet someone without leaving the house or talking to them face to face. You don’t have the algorithm of dating websites to help you match with someone but you still can meet people with the same interests as you. Facebook groups, Twitter, Tumblr or Instagram are all possible social media websites where you can meet someone.

3. Library – If you like to read, a library might be a good place to meet someone who shares the same interest and also because its a quiet place makes it another great place for introverts.

4. Park – Walking your dog to the community park can be a good way to get fresh air, do exercise, be in contact with nature and also, meet your soulmate.

5. Class – Whether you are still in college or you are taking a class or a workshop of something you enjoy, it is a good place to meet people who share interests with you.

You already know the best places you can meet someone, now is up to you to go out there and find that special person.

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