Introvert Dating Advice

This is probably the most asked question from single introvert  men  and it still puzzles me because I don’t get why so many men  believe there is like a magic trick or a spell to make women fall in  love with them, there really isn’t, but then again, I am a straight  woman, I have no idea how it is to date women but I feel that I can  give some insight from the perspective of an introvert woman. Women generally expect men to be assertive, that means giving  the  first step, approaching the woman, asking for her  number,  calling her, asking her out, call back to set a second date  and you might think this is unfair, you might think that women should also give the first step sometimes, but we didn’t make  this  up, society did and it has been like that since forever. I don’t  agree with it but unless everyone is a feminist, we are gonna have  to play by the rules. As a woman, I never have been assertive towards a guy, even if I  really

Finding out if someone likes you or not can be challenging, even for us introverts who usually are better at observing and figuring out others can still feel puzzled by someone else's feelings towards us especially if its someone we like, yet there are signs that can help you decide if that person is or is not into you. 1. They iniciate conversations with you - When you like someone, you want to talk to that person! so its pretty obvious the y would want to start conversations with you and would look for any excuse just to talk to you, simple questions like: "what are you doing?" and "how was your day?" are clear signs that person really wants to talk to you. 2. They compliment you often - The compliments dont have to be something obvious like "You are beautiful" but when they see with you a new haircut or clothes and they will compliment you by saying how great you look.  3. They often like what you post - If you have them on Facebook and they

Physical attraction might be the reason most relationships started. Being attracted to someone can be an amazing and powerful feeling which can often be confuse with love. But, its being attracted to someone the only reason to be in relationship? Or should be the most important? My answer is no. It shouldn't be neither the most important reason neither the only one. I am going to explain you why. When you meet someone, physical attraction is the first thing you feel about someone, but if you don't feel a deep connection with that person, then whats the point? If you don't have anything in common with that person or like their personality, why would be the point in being with a pretty face or a hot body? That's sexual attraction not love and that's not what you want in a relationship. Physical attraction fades with time, and you have to keep in mind that your partner might look hot now but they might wont in 20, 30 or 40 years. So what? Are you going to break

Introverts usually dont have good social skills so dating can be harder for us and sometimes we do things that we think are right but for others it seem more like annoying or weird. 1. Don't text them every hour. We all need our own space so if they are not texting you back, leave that person alone and wait for them to reach you. If you keep texting them and asking "Are you okay? Why are you not texting back?" You are going to look  like a psycho for them and trust me thats a big red flag. 2. Don't talk about your problems. We all have our own problems and situations so when are on a date with just want to have a great time; if you keep bringing how life has treat you so unfairly no one is going to see you as fun. 3. Don't do personal favors: If they only reach to you to ask you for money or to ask you to take them to run errands, its probably they are just using you and not really interested in you. Its okay to give them a ride to the date b