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Quiz: Are your expectations of love real?





Sometimes the reason a person is single is because their expectations are way too high, it is okay to be somewhat selective when you are looking for the right partner but if you have a long list of qualities that person should have and you don’t seem to find any person “worthy” of you, it is possible that your expectations are not only too high but also unreal. Find it out if that is your case with this quiz. Write down your answers.


1. What couple do you look to for relationship goals?

A) My best friend's
B) My parents
C) The ones in the movies

2. Where would be the first date?

A) At a coffee shop
B) The movies
C) A nice romantic restaurant


3. How do you expect your date to look?

A) I don’t care how they look if they are nice
B) Attractive enough, maybe a 7 or 8
C) Very hot!  A 9 or a 10


4. Would you kiss your date on the first date?

A) If there is chemistry, sure.
B) Absolutely! Thats how I know if I want a second date.
C) Not at all, I would like to wait until we are exclusive.


5. How much would you wait to become exclusive with someone?

A) It depends but I guess a couple of weeks is enough.
B) A couple of months
C) On our first date if possible

6. How much would you wait to get intimate with your partner?

A) A couple of days
B) I would wait a couple of weeks
C) No sex until we are married


7. How often would you expect to see your partner?

A) 1-2 times a week
B) 3-4 times a week
C) Everyday

8. Do you expect to spend every weekend with your partner?

A) I would like to but it is not necessary
B) No, I actually would like to spend some weekends with my friends
C) Absolutely! What else would I do?

9. Its your birthday, what do you expect your partner to do?

A) I expect to spend the day with them at least
B) I would expect them to give me a present and maybe go out somewhere
C) A lot of presents and a surprise party. I want to be spoiled on my birthday!


10. How much time would you wait to marry your partner?

A) 2-3 years
B) 4 years or more
C) 6 months- 1 year



Check your answers:

Majority of A:

Your expectations are real. You know what you want of a partner but you are also realistic and you are not waiting to date Mr. or Mrs. Perfect.

Majority of B:

Your expectations can be unreal sometimes. Everyone wants a good partner, however sometimes you might expect too much from this person and forget that we are all humans, and humans have flaws.

Majority of C:


Your expectation are way too unreal. You probably have a check list of things the person who wins your heart got to have or they can head the highway and this is probably the reason why you are single. You are not perfect and if you want others to accept your flaws, you have to accept others flaws as well, as long as those flaws are not  a threat to the relationship.



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