7 Red Signs Women Should Look For When Dating Men

I thought about making a post gender-neutral about this topic, but after consideration I decided to do it separately and make one for women and another for men. Even though both men and women are equally vulnerable to get their heart broken; men and women often behave differently and we need to take care of ourselves in different ways. Women still need to be more careful than men when dating, because lets be honest, most murderers, criminals and rapists are men, so this is something women worry about every time they go on a date especially if they met online. Here is a list of red signs women should be paying attention for when dating men:

1. He seems in a rush to meet – If he likes you, it is perfectly normal that he is going to want to meet you soon, however this can’t be too soon. Women need to build trust in a man before going out with him, you should wait a least one week before meeting in person, so if the first thing a man texted you is when you are available to meet in person, don’t do it, and instead tell him that you would prefer to get to know him first via text or phone before meeting, if he has a problem with this, this is a big red flag and it could be dangerous, do not meet under any circumstance if this is the case.

2. He trashes his exes – If he talks really bad about his ex and seems that all his relationships were his ex’s faults, he probably is not telling the truth and is also very probable that he is still not over that breakup and you wouldn't like to carry any baggage.

3. He is not polite with service – If you are in a restaurant and he doesn’t treat the service with courtesy neither leave tips, then is probably because he is a douche and its only matter of time before he mistreats you as well.

4. He doesn’t have good relationship with his family – Maybe his family is terrible but if he is constantly bad mouthing his family and he doesn’t to get along with anyone not even his parents, maybe his family is not exactly the problem.

5. He brings sex quickly - We all want to have sex, there's nothing wrong with that but men shouldn’t expect women to sleep with them on the first date, because as women, we are more likely to be killed, kidnapped or getting hurt during a date than men, so that's why we are very careful with who we sleep with and it should be someone with trust so if you are a man and woman rejects having sex with you on the first couple of dates, that doesn’t mean she is not attracted to you, it means she is taking care of herself.

6. He mostly talks about him – Maybe he is an extrovert and has a lot to say but if he doesn’t give you a chance to talk neither ask you questions maybe he is just a narcissist who only have time for himself.

7. He keeps checking his phone during the date – And worst that only talking about himself, is not talking to you at all because he is too busy checking his phone every 5 minutes and seriously, what could be more important than you?

Now That you know what are those red signs you should pay attention for, you are prepared for your date. If after a couple of dates, he doesnt show any red signs, it might be safe then to get in a relationship with him.

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