Men
just like women have to also be careful when dating so they don’t
get
waste their time or get their heart broken. Sometimes you just
can’t avoid
rejections but you can do avoid as much as I can toxic
people who would only
hurt you. I am listing 6 red signs that men
should look for when dating a woman:
1)
She doesn’t make her own money – A woman in this century
who doesn’t work and depend on others is not only a rarity but also
a red sign that perhaps means she is only looking for someone to be
her personal ATM and not a partner. This is 2018 and is not your
responsibility as a partner to maintain a woman, you can help her if
she has financial problems or maybe she decided to quit her job to be
a stay home mom, those are fine, but if those are not the reasons
maybe you have to watch out that you are not dating a gold-digger.
2)
She is rude with others – Look how she treats
the service and people around her on a date, that will say a lot
about her as a person. Sometimes when you are on a date, people put
on a mask an act differently on how they act in real life because
they want to impress the person they are on a date but if she is mean
or rude, you will see it by how she treats others. The way she treats
other, is the way she will treat you even if she seems to be nice to
you on the first couple dates.
3)
She is high maintenance – High maintenance women are the
ones who believe they deserve to be treat as a queen even when she is
not even doing the effort to treat you well. She will demand you to
do everything for her and will get mad when you don’t. High
maintenance people are not good for introverts since they require a
lot of attention and that will only cause you headaches.
4)
She is insecure – When I say “insecure”, I am
not talking about “shyness” or “self-esteem issues” but about
a person who is not sure about what they want in life. A woman who
doesn’t know what she wants in life probably will also feel unsure
if she sees a future with you or not and you can’t be wasting time
with someone who doesn’t let you know where you stand.
5)
She is too busy – Being high maintenance is
bad but also it is to be always busy. Its about finding a perfect
balance between spending quality time together and having alone time.
A woman that is always checking her phone, getting calls and often
cancelling your dates because something else came up, won’t give
you this balance, sure you will have a lot of alone time to do
whatever you want, but would that really be a relationship?
6)
She still talks with her ex – She probably will tell you
that they are only friends, and it is all right if you remain friends
with your ex, although I don’t believe in it, however if she talks
with him on a daily basis, this is a red sign that you should look
for because it can mean she still has feelings for him. One of the
worst things you can do is to deal with someone’s baggage from a
previous relationship.
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