You go on a date
with an amazing woman you are very attracted to, you had a great time
and want to see her again for a second date, but after countless seen
messages without replies and no return calls, you keep wondering,
what went wrong? What could possibly be the answer for her lack of
interest in you? It is because you were too nice? Or maybe because
you are ugly? Sometimes it can be something you can change and to
avoid future rejections, here are the most common reasons why a woman
won’t date a man:
1. There is no
chemistry – A first date is to get to know someone and find out if
there is chemistry or not, a woman usually knows if she is interested
in the guy or not in the first couple of minutes of the date so if
the conversation is not flowing naturally, she is doing most of the
talking and there are several moments of awkward silence, it means
there is not chemistry at all and she is not interested.
2. You are negative
– It is very important to give a good impression on the first date,
even if you make some mistakes later, the first date is like a job
interview, its your card of presentation and one of the things you
can never do on a first date or probably never, is being too
negative. Women and men, want to have fun on date, the least thing
they want is to hear about your family problems, how your ex cheated
on you or how horrible day you had at the office. Keep the
conversations and interesting by talking about hobbies and interests
you have in common.
3. You have bad
hygiene -We women spend a lot of time and money getting ready for a
date, we get dressed, put on make up, go to the salon and more, so
the least we expect for men is to take care of themselves. Make sure
you shower, use a nice cologne, dress well, groom your hair, and
please, check your breath, even if we are attracted to you if you
have bad breath, that's a huge turn off for us that can be a deal
breaker.
4. You don’t have
sense of humor – Being funny is one of the most attractive
non-physical traits a person can has and I am not saying that you
have to be as funny as Ricky Gervais but at least don’t be too
serious and try to have some fun, try to make her laugh by telling a
funny story about something that happened to you when you were a kid
5. You lack
confidence – According to the dictionary, confidence is the feeling
or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. In
this case, trust in you. We introverts often feel like we don’t
belong, like we are weirdos in this world of extroverts who expect
you to be like them and you don’t have to be or act like an
extrovert to be confidence, you just have to own your introversion.
Don’t apologize for being nervous or awkward, stop thinking about
the things that make you self-conscious and focus on living the
moment.
6. Yo are not
listening to her – No talking at all or talking about negative
things only is bad but there is something even worse: Not letting her
talk. Women want to be heard, if she wants to tell you something, pay
attention and look her in the eyes, make her feel she is important.
7. You try too hard
– Often men believe that women want men to impress her with
expensive gifts, romantic letters or many compliments about her
appearance, but too much of anything can be quite annoying. If you
are trying too hard, it means you are not being yourself and trust
me, we notice and someone who is fake is just unattractive. The best
thing is to let things flow in a natural way, this doesn’t mean
that you are not going to pursuit her, it means that you are not
going to rush things or make it happen before she is ready. If the
first date was amazing, call or text her the next day to set up a
second date and wait for her response before sending another message.
It is important to let her know you are interested but also let her
breath, especially if she is also an introvert.
Rejection will
always be hard to handle and its going to hurt no matter what but not
knowing the reason why someone doesn’t like you can make it even
worst. Maybe she never will tell you the real reason why she won’t
date you, sometimes its just life and you have to get over it and
move on
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