When it comes to seeking for an ideal partner, must introverts feel lost. How I do meet people? How do I talk to them?, are examples of questions introverts ask themselves everyday. Honestly, it is just harder for introverts to go out there in the real world and talk to people we find attractive. Ask yourself, would you really walk in to a bar or a club and talk to a random stranger? Probably not. So it is safe to say that the probabilities to find a partner in the real world are just not good for introverts. What else is there then? The internet of course, and I am going to tell you the reasons why.
1. It is easier
to communicate – Because introverts need time to gather
together information and process their thoughts, if you have to talk
to someone attractive in person without preparing yourself before,
its probably that one of these things will happen: You will be so
nervous that words won’t come out or you will say something awkward
or weird. Internet allows you to think before saying, or typing
something which its a win for introverts.
2. No need to go
out – Just putting up pants and going somewhere out to meet
people can become a real nightmare for introverts. With the
internet you don’t have to get out of your comfort zone, you can
search for people from the commodity of your own house.
3. It is safer –
Thanks to social media and
Skype, you can get to
know someone well before going out with them which will make
you feel more comfortable and safer because you already know this
person and you know you can
trust them.
4. Less pressure
– Internet helps
introverts to be themselves. You don’t have as much pressure as it
would be if you meet someone in person, you can just be yourself.
5. More
possibilities – How
many people can you meet in one night out? If you are lucky, maybe
one. The internet gives you the option to meet plenty of people in
just one night or even just an hour.
Whether
you are joining online dating sites like OkCupid and Match or just
looking for people on social media like Facebook and Twitter, its not
doubt that the internet opens a door for introverts to meet other
people in a way that it is more comfortable for them which make it
the most likely place any introvert can find a partner.
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