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5 Reasons Why The Internet Is The Best Way For Introverts To Meet A Partner




When it comes to seeking for an ideal partner, must introverts feel lost. How I do meet people? How do I talk to them?, are examples of questions introverts ask themselves everyday. Honestly, it is just harder for introverts to go out there in the real world and talk to people we find attractive. Ask yourself, would you really walk in to a bar or a club and talk to a random stranger? Probably not. So it is safe to say that the probabilities to find a partner in the real world are just not good for introverts. What else is there then? The internet of course, and I am going to tell you the reasons why.


1. It is easier to communicate – Because introverts need time to gather together information and process their thoughts, if you have to talk to someone attractive in person without preparing yourself before, its probably that one of these things will happen: You will be so nervous that words won’t come out or you will say something awkward or weird. Internet allows you to think before saying, or typing something which its a win for introverts.


2. No need to go out – Just putting up pants and going somewhere out to meet people can become a real nightmare for introverts. With the internet you don’t have to get out of your comfort zone, you can search for people from the commodity of your own house.


3. It is safer – Thanks to social media and Skype, you can get to know someone well before going out with them which will make you feel more comfortable and safer because you already know this person and you know you can trust them.


4. Less pressure – Internet helps introverts to be themselves. You don’t have as much pressure as it would be if you meet someone in person, you can just be yourself.


5. More possibilities – How many people can you meet in one night out? If you are lucky, maybe one. The internet gives you the option to meet plenty of people in just one night or even just an hour.



Whether you are joining online dating sites like OkCupid and Match or just looking for people on social media like Facebook and Twitter, its not doubt that the internet opens a door for introverts to meet other people in a way that it is more comfortable for them which make it the most likely place any introvert can find a partner.

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