Introvert Dating Advice

Sometimes the reason a person is single is because their expectations are way too high, it is okay to be somewhat selective when you are looking for the right partner but if you have a long list of qualities that person should have and you don’t seem to find any person “worthy” of you, it is possible that your expectations are not only too high but also unreal. Find it out if that is your case with this quiz. Write down your answers. 1. What couple do you look to for relationship goals? A) My best friend's B) My parents C) The ones in the movies 2. Where would be the first date? A) At a coffee shop B) The movies C) A nice romantic restaurant 3. How do you expect your date to look? A) I don’t care how they look if they are nice B) Attractive enough, maybe a 7 or 8 C) Very hot!  A 9 or a 10 4. Would you kiss your date on the first date? A) If there is chemistry, sure. B) Absolutely! Thats how I know ...

I always say that dating websites is the best tool for introverts to meet people; you don’t have to go out, you can take your time to answer and you have a lot more options compare to in person, yet there are still many introvert men who struggle with dating websites and doesn’t have a clue about how to talk to women. I am going to be real honest, I am a fairly attractive woman and I used to get my fair amount of messages on dating websites but most of the messages I got was from men I didn’t like at all, whether I thought they weren’t attractive enough or maybe I saw something suspicious in their profile. I used Ok Cupid when I was single for around 2 years, I would get around 3-4 messages per week but most weeks I won’t even respond to any of them. In my two years I responded to around only  6 guys and from those 6 only dated 2 in person and nothing happened with any of them because I ended up meeting my boyfriend on Facebook. Even though I didn’t meet my boyfrien...

This is one of the most common questions single introverts have asked me. How can I make someone like me when I am introvert? Or too ugly? Or hate small talk? But the true is, you cannot just make someone like you, its not like there is a trick or a spell to make someone fall in love, as a cliché as it sounds, love just happens and most of the time when you less expect it, it happens in an effortless way because if you have to force love then isn’t love after all and if isn't love, its not worth it. I think we all have been on both sides, we have been in a situation when we are rejected by someone we are attracted and also we have rejected someone that we didn’t like, we are humans and we like what we like and while someone might be a nice person and we enjoy their company that wouldn’t mean that we want a relationship with them, the reality is that most of the time we just can’t help what we are attracted to or who we fall in love with. Does that mean that ...